OPPOSITES ATTRACT 💖
Let me first clarify one thing before you start reading, this blog has nothing to do with the "Law of Attraction" in Physics. This is about human relationship and wisely selecting your partner for a better and happy future. Selecting the similar other as relationship partner is extremely common, so common that it could be described as a psychological default. Anything that disrupts the harmony of the relationship such as disagreements, attitude, difference in values and preferences are more unlikely to occur. This directly results in happy relationship with lesser avenues for a fight. Most people play better with the similarities rather than trying to impress the other person with attributes which make them unique. Change is always difficult and unlikely, it's easier to select people who are compatible with your needs and goals from the beginning. However, this might also result in lack of exposure to other ideas, values and perspectives. On the other hand,...